There is this whole urban myth that was created about manual. Trust me, that is all it is. An urban myth. Shooting in manual does not make you a better photographer. It does not allow you any more control than any of the other auto modes - including program. And, as you have found out, there are many times when using manual is actually the worst choice.
Here is a simple test. Take a piece of black poster board, and a piece of white poster board. Put them both in a spot where there are receiving even lighting. Now, move in close enough to the white board that it fills the viewfinder without throwing a shadow on the board. Set your camera in manual - center the meter for a "correct" exposure, and take a photo. Write down the settings you used. (You can get the data later off the file, but it's easier to just write it down).
Repeat with the black card.
Next, change the metering mode to Aperture, and repeat the above steps.
Next, change the metering to Shutter Priority, and repeat the above steps.
Do the same with any other exposure modes on your camera.
It's now time to import all of those photos into your editing software. You notice something about those images. You should. They are all going to be approximately the same shade of grey. There will be no white images, there will be no black images, they will all be about 18% grey.
Repeat all of the above, but this time, with the white card, open up from the recommended reading by two stops, with the black card, close down two stops. With the auto modes you use the +- exposure compensation button.
Import and compare - now the white card looks white, the black card looks black. And again it doesn't matter which mode you used, they will all look the same for each of the metering modes.
So why then this thing that you need to shoot in manual. Like I said, it's an urban myth. It didn't exist before the advent of the digital camera. In fact if you go back to books written in the 80's you will find lots of references to the advantages of the auto exposure modes (one of the advantages of being older than dirt - institutional memory of what was before). With the digital camera came a whole plethora of newly minted photographers trying to enter the world of professional photography. But being a real professional photographer is hard work. It's not anywhere near as easy as looks, because the camera really is only a tool, just like a hammer or a saw are the tool of a carpenter, or a paint brush and palette are the tool of a painter.
You know that old saying, those that can do, those that can not, teach. Well they found out that it was far easier and more lucrative to teach the newest batch of photographers. But what to teach. Well, you cannot be a "real" photographer, unless you use manual mode. So that's what they came up with. Building this whole myth that to be a real photographer you need to shoot in manual.
Well it is just as much bull, as back in the day, you were not a real photographer unless you used a view camera - that was cry when the roll film cameras came out. Followed by the cry you were not a real photographer unless you used medium format - that was the cry when the 35mm camera came out.
Every generation has the elitists that claim that you have to do X to belong to their select group. They are trying to make themselves feel important by excluding those that don't meet the criteria of their club.
Lets not forget the acolytes of the sunny 16 rule. They claim that you don't need to know anything more than a series of rules. Like if the sun is out and throwing distinct shadows that you shoot in manual and set your fstop to 16 and your shutter speed to 1/ISO. There are different settings for sand, snow, cloudy, etc. and they all used to be printed on the little instruction sheet that came with your roll of film. But the settings are not infallible they were simply designed to give you an exposure that would, when combined with the exposure latitude of the film, a negative that could be printed. That negative could be out by two stops either over or under, and you would still be able to pull an image in the darkroom. Today, it relies on the "We will fix it after in Photoshop"
The control you seek, does not come from any exposure mode in the camera. It comes from thinking about what you want the final image to say. Like do you want to illustrate speed, by the blur created by panning the camera with a slower shutter speed. Or do you want to do it by freezing the action with a high shutter speed.
This is a decision that you as the photographer make before you press the shutter, before you take a meter reading, before you put the camera to your eye. Once you make that decision you can capture that vision with whatever exposure mode you want to use.
My preference is for aperture preferred, because if I want to freeze action, I just open up the lens as far as it will go. That will give me the fastest shutter speed that lens and ISO combination can give me. It may not be fast enough, but I still end up with a properly exposed file. When you use shutter preferred - you are likely to come away with a lot of underexposed images because the lens isn't fast enough to support the shutter speed.
The big advantage to the auto modes is that they take care of the technical side (right brain side) of the image, leaving you to concentrate on the creative (left brain side) of the image. Todays cameras are far better and faster at dealing with the technical side, but they still haven't made a camera that can deal with the creative side. So let the camera do what it can do better than you, and you concentrate on what you can do better than the camera. And the hell with the elitists that say you have to do it this way or that way.
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