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Mar 14, 2017 15:48:24   #
rochephoto
 
My wife is one of the Brides Maids....

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Mar 14, 2017 17:09:38   #
Rongnongno Loc: FL
 
rochephoto wrote:
My wife is one of the Brides Maids....

And she is ok with that????? (shoot that is)

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Mar 14, 2017 17:15:17   #
Japakomom Loc: Originally from the Last Frontier
 
So the client is actually a friend? And your friend wants you to shoot them the first time having sex as a married couple? This whole story sounds odd.

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Mar 14, 2017 17:17:47   #
rochephoto
 
You're telling me! A bit awkward.

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Mar 14, 2017 17:26:27   #
boberic Loc: Quiet Corner, Connecticut. Ex long Islander
 
I don't understand. Do the bride and groom actually want a photographer taking pictures while they "do the nasty" for the first time. There are unpleasant words to describe this kind of thing. Porno come to mind first. This can't be a serious request. As a photographer I would regard this request as a lawsuit getting ready to happen. 2 words of advice--STAY AWAY

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Mar 14, 2017 17:42:38   #
G Brown Loc: Sunny Bognor Regis West Sussex UK
 
Do what any teenager would do....snap it through the window.

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Mar 14, 2017 17:43:00   #
Japakomom Loc: Originally from the Last Frontier
 
rochephoto wrote:
You're telling me! A bit awkward.


I would suggest to them a video camera on a tripod - but, maybe they are looking for some art to hang on their walls.(?) As a friend it would definitely be an odd position to be in. Maybe you can help them find another photographer that would be willing to take on the shoot.

I guess the thing for me is that it is capturing a moment between the couple. It is not a planned shoot with models, but real people with real emotion. If that makes sense to you. I think it would be much easier to shoot actors doing this, but friends, intimate enough that your wife is in their wedding party... Maybe, they are just swingers and didn't have a better way of inviting you along

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Mar 14, 2017 19:24:08   #
markngolf Loc: Bridgewater, NJ
 
So are they, "only going to get one shot". LOL
Mark
rochephoto wrote:
I have a client couple who want me to photograph the consummation of their marriage. I've never done this before, but I'm sure there are a few of you Pros out there that have experience at this. Any tips on angles, lighting, location etc. I'm only going to get one shot at this.
Thanks!!

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Mar 14, 2017 21:51:55   #
Rongnongno Loc: FL
 
Why be shy and say 'do the nasty' or other euphemisms when you folks talk about sex?

What is wrong with being honest and simply say 'while they have sex'? Are your minds so perverted that they cannot accept sex without seeing or imagining a sin? Are we back to middle school and 'playing doctor'???

Call everything by its name not by 'code name' to protect the 'innocent' readers that quite honestly should be old enough to speak plainly and certainly are not 'innocents', 'naive' or whatever.

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Mar 14, 2017 21:55:11   #
Steve Perry Loc: Sylvania, Ohio
 
Well...
That's enough internet for today.

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Mar 14, 2017 22:00:24   #
n3eg Loc: West coast USA
 
rgrenaderphoto wrote:
Ok, let them know that in the middle of the act, there's going to be this photographer on the sidelines with...a noisy clicking shutter.


One word: MIRRORLESS.

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Mar 14, 2017 22:00:37   #
VisualMusing Loc: Carrollton, TX
 
Steve Perry wrote:
Well...
That's enough internet for today.



+1 and LMAO!

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Mar 14, 2017 22:35:55   #
Peterff Loc: O'er The Hills and Far Away, in Themyscira.
 
rochephoto wrote:
My wife is one of the Brides Maids....


That's a little more difficult then unless you're all in 'the lifestyle'.

Have you asked precisely what they mean by 'consummation' in this context? There are different interpretations, perhaps you will need to do a rehearsal first to get the positions, camera angles, and lighting correct. Perhaps more than once.

You may need to get the officiant involved if it includes 'Altar Native' approaches.

So many things to consider!

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Mar 15, 2017 00:35:54   #
BHC Loc: Strawberry Valley, JF, USA
 
rochephoto wrote:
Come on guys, this isn't very helpful! I'm in a bind here!

Say "Yes" if you can demonstrate the poses.....

Also, they should wear Go-Pros - and NO, that's not a brand of condom.

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Mar 15, 2017 00:43:38   #
BHC Loc: Strawberry Valley, JF, USA
 
Rongnongno wrote:
Are we back to middle school and 'playing doctor'???

Ah, the good old days!

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