Dave - with two postings covering the same question, it may difficult to follow / consolidate the various comments...The widest aperture on your zoom (f/3.5) applies only for the range roughly 18-24mm. I'm with you on the portrait style / narrow Depth of Field where the background is blurred. However, the Tamron 18-270 F/3.5-6.3 has the following characteristics (source photo.net):
zoom range maximum aperture18-24mm f3.5
25-33mm f4
34-45mm f4.5
46-69mm f5.0
70-168mm f5.6
169-270mm f6.3
You'll have difficultly capturing the action 'up close' using the zoom's longer focal lengths while also trying for a blurred background via shallow DOF. You'll have to be physically close to the action and the background components will have to be physically further into the background to achieve more out of focus.
You've provided the speed and aperture for the three examples, but didn't
store original. I'm inferring the amount of zoom, but I may be in error without being able to consult the EXIF data in the picture. Given the specifications on your lens, at f6.3 you're likely using the maximum aperture of the lens when zoomed to the maximum focal length.
Without changing equipment, you're presented with a few options:
a) get physically closer to the action to use less zoom and a wider aperture
b) use a smaller aperture and get more of the entire picture in complete focus
c) crop your images in Post Processing
Idea (b) changes from blurred background to more / all in focus, both foreground and background. If you put changing equipment on the table, you'll be looking for a lens with the same or more zoom or a lens with a constant aperture or a lens where the maximum aperture at the maximum zoom is a smaller f/# number.
The 'secret' from a lot of sports action shots is having the longest zoom, the highest density sensor (max MP value), and
heavily cropping the image to focus on the subject / action. Your third picture could be cropped to retain player #32 and the action to his right. Example #2 could be changed to a vertical orientation with just player #30 shown.
PS - Welcome. Saw you joined recently. I played my HS ball up in Centerville.
BTW - A Neutral Density (ND) filter is like using sunglasses. And this is different than a UV filter. See this wiki description for the basics:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neutral_density_filter