It’s not a judgement, it’s an opinion. Nowhere have I used the word “essential” and in my comment nor have I said “all”. My OPINION is that a healthy lifestyle includes a MIX of positive components of which hard work, earning a living, social activities, awareness of the needs of others and just plain fun. This young lady appears to have focused her teen years, important years in becoming an adult, on herself. I’m not chastising nor condemning her, just stating my OPINION.