azted wrote:
Sometimes your instincts are correct and sometimes way off. Who's to know? But unless the person is in front of you, and you can ask for more info, it is kind of nasty to insinuate the motives of someone else. Your sensitivity is a good thing, but sometimes we need to hold our cards close to our vest! All the best to you.........
As I said the tenor of casual and unpracticed remarks are a more reliable guide to character than almost any other evidence.