Window 10 update came with options, 'Shutdown after update, Sleep after update, Stay on after update'.
Two times I had it updated then sleep.
Both times my Dell computers never woke up in the morning after updated in the evening, then went to sleep. I ended up get a new desktop each time.
So l will never ever have my Win10 update then sleep.
Not quite sure of your complaint.
Are you expecting a computer that went to sleep to wake up on its own? Not the way it works.
Are you just seeing a rearrangement of your icons on the desktop? If so, you can install a desktop saver that will save the layout of your desktop. If it gets changed for any reason (including you moving/deleting icons) you can easily restore your desired arrangement. There are a lot of them. Just google (or duckduck) "Desktop Restore" (uppercase not necessary).